Showing posts with label success. Show all posts
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Saturday, April 8, 2017

Overcoming a challenge

Overcoming a challenge;
by Robert Gebbie

Every individual faces challenges in their life, from the daily family and career struggles to the deep internal battles we fight within ourselves. The world is filled with situations that must be met or avoided. Knowing which obstacle to step around and which to charge head strong into can be a challenge in itself.
Often it is the way people approach Life's difficulties that determine the type of experiences they have in resolving them. Logic and reason can often get muddled with our emotions as we struggle to find acceptable solutions.

First, take a deep breath, you are not alone. Few, if any, have ever lived a life free of drama and/or tragedy of some kind. If the situation is not life threatening you probably have time to assess things before some action is necessary. Don't panic, in most instances remaining calm can be the greatest asset you have. Especially in an emergency, losing self control will most often result in creating greater damage rather than doing anything to resolve it.

Here are some general steps that can be taken that may help in tackling even the most difficult situations:

Evaluate, know the size and kind of challenge you face. From complex work projects to resolving the deep internal emotions of guilt and regret, understanding the situation is a must. You cannot solve a problem unless you first know what that problem is. A realistic and honest consideration of what you face and what it may or will take to accomplish the task ahead is the greatest key factor in success or failure.

Make a plan, understand the conditions that will get you from your starting point to its conclusion. Create a bridge of steps that you can cross which lead to the destination you expect to reach. When a person understands what it will take to reach their goals their aspiration then become obtainable.

Asses resources, take stock of the material, personnel and skills you have available. Know your limitations as well as your assets, if you're remodeling a house you will need supplies, someone to do the work, and the ability to complete the project. Each resource at your disposal is an asset, while any that are not available must be obtained to increase the chances for success.

Take action, nothing is ever accomplished without some form of movement. You cannot get anywhere if you don't first start the journey. Everything requires action, even air requires the effort of breathing to obtain, and no race is ever won without crossing the starting line first.

Most things in the course of a person's life can be overcome by applying some form of a process. Incredible things can be accomplished when a person establishes a goal and is determined to reach it. From curing childhood diseases to resolving deep emotional issues, the Human Race has not accomplished the things it has without great ability to adapt and evolve.

Friday, April 8, 2011

Squidoo Articles 4/8/2011

This is a complete list of our articles on squidoo as of 4/8/2011

Click on the title to view the full post.

1. Our Zazzle Journey News!

We are Stock photographers, and were looking for other ways to expand and grow our small little company, when we found a merchandising site called Zazzle. So Robert decided to give it a try. But I was so bogged down with stock and sales that I didn't have time to really look into it. He put up a ...
Internet - Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:03:47

2. Flower Power Love News!

Flowers are nature's way of smiling at the world. From their colorful blooms to their fragrant odors they have inspired the imagination of artists to paint, sculpt, photograph and write about them the world over. Few things have motivated the creative soul as often as these natural wonders. Growi...
Internet - Fri, 08 Apr 2011 10:36:38

3. Abstract Art Prints, Cards and Postcards News!

Balanced on the edge between order and insanity, free as a bird or restrained like a prisoner. The vision and expression of an artist's soul displayed for the world to view. What manner of torture or spark of genius must be at the core of the creative mind? Restricted by mortal limitations yet fr...
Internet - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:09:01

4. Fractal Art Posters and Prints News!

Fractals have become very popular in recent years as a form of artistic expression. While these geometric shapes and repeating patterns are common in nature, it is the computer generated creations which are most commonly thought of. It may be true that fractals are composed of complicated mathema...
Internet - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:04:44

5. It Takes More than Words

How often do people talk about the things they want out of life, but do very little in regards to fulfilling them? Wishes and dreams are wondrous things. The Human mind can create worlds of fantasy, take us on trips to locations we have never been, or develop the next greatest time-saving device....
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 20:41:46

6. RGebbiePhotos Zazzle Gallery News!

Zazzle is a print on demand store front online where artists and designers can promote their creations as images on fun and exciting consumer products. Zazzle enables individuals, professional artists, and major brands to create and offer billions of unique items for customers worldwide. Owned a...
Internet - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:06:01

7. How will you Leave Your Mark? News!

We spend our lives with too much self involvement, getting mired in the small details without ever viewing the larger great works being created right in front of us. When a person drops the veils and misconceptions that have been presented as a reality, and allow themselves to accept the things t...
Education - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 21:00:49

8. Age of Confusion News!

It seems pretty obvious to me that this world, our world, is in serious trouble. What I remember of history, being of deep personal interest to me, I don't believe there has ever been a time in our human existence when the entire planet has been in such a stage of fear, conflict and confusion. Re...
Culture & Society - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 20:48:45

9. Epiphany and Self-Evolution News!

Many people have experienced a moment of epiphany in their lifetime, an instant when they have an understanding or realization that seems so profound, it takes their breath away. In those few moments a person can feel like they just touched the edge of everything that is known. Maybe they took a ...
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 21:13:27

10. Photographing the Essence of Woman News!

Through my years in the business, I have had the pleasure of photographing thousands of people, and most of them have been women. And there is one truth, which is universal amongst them. Women want to look beautiful in their photos. Whether it's for Corporate Identity, Fashion, Family Portrait, o...
Arts & Design - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 21:36:27

11. Spreading the Love, Celebrating the Heart

Hearts are the universal symbol of love. From sketching hearts on our note books in school, to giving a big box of chocolates to a loved one on Valentine's Day, this representation of the soul will always be the number one way to express affection. So let us celebrate this iconic form in all its ...
Internet - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 21:21:49

12. Bridges to be Crossed

Most people dream of a life filled with happiness and success, but the reality is few truly end up having the life they want to lead. Even when someone finds fulfillment in one aspect of their world, they will often find disappointment in many others. The journey from birth to death is often a st...
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:29:45

13. How to Photograph Women Close Up

Photography can convey a message, thought or emotion, and leave a long lasting impression on the viewer. A close up or tightly cropped scene is one way in which a photographer can create a mood and relay a concept. This is especially true when photographing women, and the artist wishes to use a ...
Arts & Design - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 21:25:38

14. Self Perpetuating Evolution

Evolution is commonly described as a process of continuous change from a lower to a higher state. In human evolution it is often the genetic stages of change that are commonly thought of, such as the physical development from primitive to modern man. Perhaps our spiritual and intellectual evoluti...
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 23:45:10

15. Taking the First Steps News!

Often the first few steps in personal progress can be the hardest. It is never easy to step from the safety you know into a rush of unknown possibilities. The security and comfort that keep our inner selves safe can also be the one thing holding us back from greater potential just beyond the next...
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 20:52:27

16. The Best Camera I Ever Owned News!

When I was three my parents gave me a Vintage, Fisher Price Toy, Picture Story Camera, No. 784 for Christmas. It had a big plastic rotating cube on the top and a fogged up clear plastic view screen. With a large orange shutter button that made a clicking sound when you pressed it. That was the be...
Arts & Design - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 21:51:19

17. Fremont Street Experiences News!

Robert and I were asked to help out a friend with her business. She runs a "spotter" company, watching a parking lot and having vehicles towed that park there without permits. It was an interesting experience, sitting in that cold parking lot throughout the night, watching the neon burn until mor...
Culture & Society - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 21:58:33

18. The One Thing

There is one thing every person in the world can do to enrich their lives. Young or old, rich or poor, large and small, from every country, view or ethnic background; we can all work on who we are as individuals. Every person can benefit from taking time to improve upon who they are.
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:46:45

19. A Road Less Traveled News!

There are times when the road less traveled can be the quickest path to reaching your goals. In our personal and professional lives the common path can often appear the safe and steady route to our desires. While the process may be tried and true the road is mired with overwhelming numbers where ...
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:14:06

20. Another Night on Fremont Street News!

The night scene here on Fremont is becoming strangely familiar. The people change, but the situations remain pretty consistent. Across the street, in the darkened doorway of an abandoned storefront, a couple has an argument. He stands there, almost bored, with his hands in his pockets as she ple...
Culture & Society - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 21:54:31

21. How to Persevere Obstacles

Personally and professionally, most people encounter obstacles in their paths to growth and success. There are times when the size and number of roadblocks can overshadow your vision, making goals and projects seem insurmountable. Writing down the steps you need to take to reach your goal will gi...
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 23:09:27

22. The Greatest Treasure

The greatest treasure mankind has to offer cannot be purchased with silver or gold, but must be earned through the experiences in life's journey. More valuable than the world's most prized piece of art is the knowledge and wisdom humanity has gained in our short existence on this planet. With a f...
Healthy Living - Thu, 07 Apr 2011 01:48:04

23. How to Make Your Vision a Reality News!

There has always been a lot to be said for the power of positive thinking. When we believe in ourselves and have passion for the things we do, visions can become accomplishments. Making your dreams come true can be as simple as following the inspiration in your heart. With strong drive and persev...
Education - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:24:02

24. Focus on Your Future News!

Every process, including life, has three stages; a beginning, a middle, and an ending. Relative to the journey of life, these steps might represent our past, present and future. Yesterday is behind us, today is here, but tomorrow presents endless possibilities. These possibilities are laid out be...
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:39:31

25. I Creator; The Great Expression News!

The world is filled with pictures and images, visual media as advertisements, art and dialog saturate every aspect of our lives. From expressing an emotion to reminding us to turn off the lights when we leave the room, photographs, designs, graphics and text can be found on almost everything in o...
Arts & Design - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:35:52

26. How To Stay Strong in the Face of Failure News!

Many people have had moments when they feel as if life, the world, and almost everything around them move forward, while they themselves, hard as they may try, stand still. More than once I have seen a project stalled, delayed or abandoned because the effort given did not justify the results. Har...
Healthy Living - Thu, 07 Apr 2011 03:57:32

27. Evaluation and Adaptation News!

Species or society, business or individual, the same principal stands true; you must evolve if you want to continue to exist. Change in a comfortable and familiar routine can be very difficult, and considerably more so when those changes are in a person's inner self. The drive to learn, to evolve...
Healthy Living - Thu, 07 Apr 2011 03:59:37

28. On Growing up News!

As an observer of human nature, I have noticed how often people look for reasons beyond themselves for the troubles in their lives. They make excuses and cast blame at others when things go wrong. Even the people we once looked to as examples in the professional and political environment appear t...
Healthy Living - Thu, 07 Apr 2011 03:45:15

29. Brush and Canvas to Drag and Drop

Once upon a time, before the age of Photoshop and Illustrator, photographs were taken on film and developed in a darkroom, designs drawn on a sketch pad and the whole mess came together taped to some editors art board. There is and always will be a conflict between tradition and innovation. I can...
Arts & Design - Thu, 07 Apr 2011 03:55:33

30. Controlling Your Future

We are the result of our experiences both good and bad. There are numerous factors that create the people we become in life. Some of these events we have direct influence on or control over, while others are a matter of timing and fate. Everyone, each person in this world, has an individual persp...
Healthy Living - Thu, 07 Apr 2011 04:09:53

31. Slaying the Dragons Within

Everyone has battles they fight in their everyday life, family and job stresses just to start, but what of the wars that rage within one's own self. The ever weighing scale between the things we know are right and the deeds we have done that are wrong. Even a young child knows when they act in a ...
Healthy Living - Thu, 07 Apr 2011 03:55:32

32. Climbing Your Inner Walls News!

Most people have experiences that cause them to create barriers between their inner self and the outside. Some of these walls are necessary they protect us from the world and ourselves, other walls stall or even stop us in our own personal growth. I have built and dismantled more than a few of t...
Healthy Living - Wed, 06 Apr 2011 22:51:48

33. The Creation of Man: How to Legally Shoot your Husband News!

We needed more models. We had our friends in front of the camera, and they were good for commercial images, but we needed something more. We had a sense that we were headed into something special, but we weren't quite sure what it was going to be. I decided to put Robert in front of the camera. ...
Arts & Design - Fri, 08 Apr 2011 00:31:57

34. The Greatest Adventure News!
When every day you live becomes your greatest adventure life is an experience you are anxious to greet. While the concept is simple, the task can be overwhelming to accomplish. Maintaining hope and optimism from one day to the next can be a daunting chore in itself. It is always easier to have fa...
Healthy Living - Thu, 07 Apr 2011 04:11:58

Friday, January 7, 2011

Taking the first steps

Often the first few steps in personal progress can be the hardest. It is never easy to step from the safety you know into a rush of unknown possibilities. The security and comfort that keep our inner selves safe can also be the one thing holding us back from greater potential just beyond the next hill or curve in our path. There are always risks; a person can never be assured that the next choice they make or steps they take will always be positive.

When there is potential for great success, there is always the risk of great failure. The manners in which we approach these possibilities help to determine what the outcome may be. When we move forward with optimism and a positive outlook, even in the face of disaster, a person can find lessons which may yield the keys to a future victory. Sometimes a person will suffer a dozen losses before they experience a single win, but without trying, even that one success will never be accomplished.

The lessons people learn from their past failures are often the stepping stones that lead to their future successes. Most of us have heard the age old adage “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again”. If humanity had quit with every tragedy they encountered, it is doubtful our species would have developed or survived as long as we have. Experience and knowledge are gained by observing an attempt, and revising the things which went wrong against those that went right, then trying again. Few people or projects ever reach a stage of accomplishment without also overcoming a number of obstacles which stand in their way.

To move forward in life we must first be prepared to fail before we expect to succeed. I encourage everyone to seek and aspire greater in themselves and their life. The possibilities of the future far outweigh the struggles and disappointments that may be encountered in the journey getting there. Take the chance that you may fall a dozen times before you conquer the mountains that lay ahead. The rewards which await each of us are well worth the bruises and scrapes we may receive along the way.

Monday, September 21, 2009

The Greatest Adventure

When every day you live becomes your greatest adventure life is an experience you are anxious to greet. While the concept is simple, the task can be overwhelming to accomplish. Maintaining hope and optimism from one day to the next can be a daunting chore in itself. It is always easier to have faith in an ideal than it is to live up to one. Daily events and the chaos of life can make it a challenge to consistently stay unwavering and on track in a person’s endeavors or journey.

For me, the greatest adventure has been to learn, grow and evolve as an individual, following my dreams and developing in directions I would have never explored without the opportunities my journey has afforded me. Each moment is a chance to learn from people, information, and environments around us. Everyone has the chance to better understand their world when one chooses to observe. Understanding the effect a single moment can have on a person’s progress is paramount when seeking to find one’s own self. The truth is often difficult to find, and even more of a challenge when we seek such honesty of ourselves. To understand the world outside we must first know the world within.

The fewer number of obstacles that obscure a person’s vision, the more clearly that individual can see a path to accomplishing their goals. When self improvement and growth are included in an individual’s endeavors, they will continue to excel towards their long term dreams. The desire to better ourselves and evolve as a person is not an overnight journey, and takes a lifetime to reach. The moment one milestone or pinnacle is accomplished, another will present itself and remind us that there is always more to learn and understand. Every individual must discover their own path and define their journey by the maturity, experience and desires of that person, themselves.

In my experience, every step forward presents a larger vision. Through observation and discovery, I have found a greater understanding of myself and the things around me. This forward evolution has helped to balance my life and bring me a peace and happiness I have never known before. The deeper I explored my own misperceptions and obstacles; the more clearly I understood the people, events and actions that molded me into the person I am. The deeper this understanding, the simpler many issues became. Small matters of guilt and emotional stress became much less significant matters to dwell on.

Most people spend a large amount of time discounting the knowledge and experiences of others. Many of the things we are told get judged and discarded without much consideration. Too often, individuals will hold onto the social, emotional or conceptual notions they have developed in their life, and quickly disregard the varied experiences of others. Even in the closest of relationships people often say and do things from a point of view limited by their own very personal experiences. One of the most valuable things a person can do to improve is to close their mouth, then open their eyes and ears to observe. Approaching people and information without pre-conceptions or assumptions is not easy, but will open a path to learning and understanding.

Everyone has more to learn, and each individual has something worth contributing. When people accept that others have lives and experiences which may be different, but just as valuable as their own, they can then see a larger perspective. When people can perceive a wider view on their world, the smaller less significant worries cease to be an issue in blocking success and happiness.

Saturday, September 5, 2009

It Takes More than Words

How often do people talk about the things they want out of life, but do very little in regards to fulfilling them? Wishes and dreams are wondrous things. The Human mind can create worlds of fantasy, take us on trips to locations we have never been, or develop the next greatest time-saving device. From contemplating what may exist beyond our corner of the universe, to examining our own existence and environment, human imagination and ingenuity enables our species to evolve and develop.

Concepts and ideas without action are the dreams and aspirations we leave unfulfilled. Even the best of intentions will never yield results, if no one acts to produce them. The happiest and most successful people that I have encountered seem to all have one thing in common; they took action, and made decisions that led their lives in the directions they desired. A cart will never carry a load if no one builds, loads, or supplies the energy to move it. It takes more than words for thoughts to become accomplishments and achievements.

When an individual has drive, passion, and desire, almost anything is possible. The most destructive force in blocking them from achieving their goal is self-doubt. It is the responsibility of the individual alone to define the path they desire to follow with their life. If your path meets a dead end, then you should build a new road. Know that each new day presents an opportunity to learn and grow in the direction you wish to travel.

Personal, Environmental, or Career Ambition;
To create positive change, a person must make decisions and positively act on them to achieve the goals they desire. From seeking spiritual enlightenment, to climbing the corporate ladder to CEO, the things we strive for take effort to reach. It is often the journey, and not the destination, that lead people to their greatest advancements in personal development. When a person strives to learn and grow, the obstacles overcome today easily become the stepping stones for success tomorrow.

Every adventure begins with a first step, much like other routines. The more often it is practiced, the more familiar it becomes. Make a concerted effort each day to gain knowledge from experiences. Small gains today lead to greater success in the future. It has often been observed that steady progress eventually results in accomplishing a person’s goal, even when the destination seems beyond reach at the beginning of the journey. The dreams envisioned today may lead to the advances made the next. Believe the goal reachable, and strive to make it happen.

Have confidence in your work. Often, the hardest person to convince an idea is worth striving for is ourselves. Trust in your own value. Believe that, with effort and perseverance, you can accomplish your goals no matter how difficult or lengthy the pursuit may be. The technologies and comforts of today were the concepts and fantasy of yesterday. Dare to challenge the boundaries that exist now for the possibilities presented tomorrow.

Don’t allow others to block your passion or desire. Even Don Quixote found his place in history from the pursuit of his dreams. Own your wishes, no matter how the future unfolds. The things a person envisions are theirs to hold onto and believe in. Whether you are inventing the next wheel, or simply convincing yourself tomorrow will be a better day, you are capable of great accomplishments when you believe in yourself.

Everything comes with a price. It takes effort; do not expect others to build your dreams for you. While it is always nice to have the support of others, you must guide the path your life takes by the choices you make. Even if the dream is shared, both individuals must have the passion and desire for success. Taking a passive roll by allowing others to make decisions, or standing on the sidelines, will not lead to the destination one wishes. Rather, it leads to the other individuals destination. While individuals do not have control over every experience that occurs in their lives, they do have the power to strive for the things they wish to achieve. When empowered with the ability to make decisions about their direction in life, a person has choices about the destiny they arrive at.

The choices a person makes, and the actions they take, have great influence on where their journey leads them. When a person has control over the path their life pursues, their chances for success improve greatly.